The biggest criteria for knowing that the guy will get you off is that he advertised on Craigslist. If you find a guy who is both you are in for a mind blowing experience. Some will have pictures of themselves others not but you’ll be face down for most of the experience so does it really matter what they look like? Now you may wonder “how do I tell if the guy is a real massage therapist or one that will get me off?” The truth is they are not mutually exclusive. Some of the massage therapists are better than others. Go to Craigslist and book yourself a male massage. My advice for the closeted man who is curious but not sure if he wants to try sex with a man.